While waiting a while to do the deed can help sometimes, I’ve also heard of people who have held out a little longer and the same thing has happened.But I believe most guys don’t want the moral hangover of being your first then doing a runner, so it can act a bit like a filter to screen out guys that aren’t serious.
I remember last year I went through a hardcore husband-hunting spree churning out two dates a week.
Dating can feel like looking for a needle in a haystack.
I’m almost 5’9” and only attracted to taller men, so that rules out many guys.
After one particularly dull pub date, I ended up going to a club with a girl from Bumble BFF. I thought, maybe I should become a spinster cat lady, and just have fun with friends.
If I’d had other serious relationships before, I would have done. I want to have a boyfriend to cuddle, dote on me and have sex with. I also feel under pressure to meet someone soon as when people find being a virgin a turn-on, that tends to be directed at younger women rather than men or older women.